Hello my gumdrops! So I was wandering through a few blogs and stumbled across Iamkarmin.com. Anyhow, as I was reading a few of her entries and I came across this post:
STAY IN CHARACTER.
I think its natural for you as a person to want to nurture and cater to people you care about. Maybe it comes without thinking or maybe we do it in order to recieve the same kindness or love in return. Problem is, these traits aren’t in everybody, and as we all know, what you put out into the world may not always come back in the form you expected. Have you ever asked yourself “Why am I so nice to people and they still treat me like crap?”…of course you have. We all do it once in our lives. I still do it. With strangers, even friends and family. I asked myself that question today at work because this lady pretty much blew me off after I greeted her. The thing I’ve been trying to wrap my mind around is that I should’nt get angry and let myself waste energy on another persons stank attitude. I know they probably arent having the best day. And all anger really is just fear and a little bit of sadness, so then I feel bad for that person… Anywho, It hurts sometimes to keep that smile on my face. Stay in character. Its hard but its possible. Im not perfect but I’m trying, and all the good you do will be recognized.
STAY IN CHARACTER.
I think its natural for you as a person to want to nurture and cater to people you care about. Maybe it comes without thinking or maybe we do it in order to recieve the same kindness or love in return. Problem is, these traits aren’t in everybody, and as we all know, what you put out into the world may not always come back in the form you expected. Have you ever asked yourself “Why am I so nice to people and they still treat me like crap?”…of course you have. We all do it once in our lives. I still do it. With strangers, even friends and family. I asked myself that question today at work because this lady pretty much blew me off after I greeted her. The thing I’ve been trying to wrap my mind around is that I should’nt get angry and let myself waste energy on another persons stank attitude. I know they probably arent having the best day. And all anger really is just fear and a little bit of sadness, so then I feel bad for that person… Anywho, It hurts sometimes to keep that smile on my face. Stay in character. Its hard but its possible. Im not perfect but I’m trying, and all the good you do will be recognized.
This spoke VOLUMES to me. Why? Because it’s so true! I feel like that all the time. It’s bizarre, I’m just happy I’m not the only one who feels this way. I think we can all relate to this to some extend. And she’s so right, TRY your best to stay in character! Nevertheless, her website is pretty cool. Check it out! BTW, her faded haircut makes me want to chop ALL my hair off! She looks simply divine! Take care gumdrops! XOXO
BTW...I thought Rihanna looked amazing at the American Music Awards
this is very true i agree with u both. we can all relate to this. i think that we have all been used and abused before. some more than others. i think it can even happen more in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteAMEN! That is true and i agree with ^^ it always seems to happen more in a relationship. That red hair finally look good on rih
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